Forgiveness

Once again the Henri Nouwen reflections site has provided some wonderful food for reflection. Today's particular truth is one that I have had to learn through personal experience - and one of the most important ones. That being unable to fogive ultimately limits our own freedom and growth. If you'd like to subscribe to the Henri Nouwen site's daily meditations the link is in the article I posted on Friday.
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Forgiveness, the Way to Freedom


To forgive another person from the heart is an act of liberation. We set that person free from the negative bonds that exist between us. We say, "I no longer hold your offense against you" But there is more. We also free ourselves from the burden of being the "offended one." As long as we do not forgive those who have wounded us, we carry them with us or, worse, pull them as a heavy load. The great temptation is to cling in anger to our enemies and then define ourselves as being offended and wounded by them. Forgiveness, therefore, liberates not only the other but also ourselves. It is the way to the freedom of the children of God.