Monday, December 24, 2007

Mary: Lady in Waiting


Here is the 3rd of 4 reflections that I wrote for the NRUC Advent reflection booklet. With luck I'll put the 4th one up tomorrow before the jolly fat man leaves the North Pole.....


Text: ‘I am the handmaid of the Lord. Let what you have said be done to me.’ (Luke 1:38)

Advent is the season of waiting expectantly for the birth of Christ. However, often waiting is often tinged with fear. Fear of the unknown. Fear of what might happen. Fear of change. Even waiting for events which should be joyous can have an element of apprehension: will things be as wonderful as we expect them to be?

Imagine then how it must have been to be a pregnant, unwed mother in first century Palestine. A social outcast in fear of her life unless she could wed: fast.

And yet Mary had heard the word of God: a promise about who the child she was carrying would grow up to be. Despite her desperate situation Mary was prepared to trust the Lord that all would be well: that her situation would bring about good.

Henri Nouwen in The Path of Waiting puts it like this: ‘To wait open-endedly is an enormously radical attitude toward life. It is trusting that something will happen to us that is far beyond our imaginings. It is giving up control over our future and letting God define our life. It is living with the conviction that God moulds us according to God’s love and not according to our fear.’

As we wait in expectantly for the Christ Child this advent season may we wait on God to change our lives in joyful anticipation of what may happen if we let God define our life.

Prayer: “Lord, help me to put aside my fears of the future and wait expectantly, trustingly on your spirit to change and renew my life this advent season.”

Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Waiting expectantly for God


Another of my recent advent reflections....


Text: Luke 1: 37 ‘For nothing will be impossible with God.’

Elizabeth was a relative of Mary, the Mother of Jesus. She and her husband Zechariah were getting old, and although they were both ‘righteous before God’ they still had no children. An angel appeared to Zechariah and told him that his wife would have a baby. Although Zechariah found this hard to believe, Elizabeth was very happy that God had blessed her.
When Mary found out that both she and Elizabeth were expecting a baby, Mary went straight to Elizabeth’s house. When Elizabeth saw Mary the child in her womb lept for joy: Elizabeth recognised instantly that Mary’s child was from God the one that would be the fulfilment of God’s promise to her.

Elizabeth’s story reminds us of the importance of waiting on the will of God. Our God keeps God’s promises. How often do we expect God’s will to be our will, or expect God to answer our prayers in our time? The story of Elizabeth reminds us that God’s big picture is much bigger than our imagining. May we wait patiently for God’s will in our lives to be revealed.

Prayer: Lord, help me to wait patiently for your will to be revealed in my life in your good time.

Prepare the way of the Lord


Well I've written a few Advent reflections for the NRUC advent book this month - so I thought I'd share them with you in the lead up to the big day next tuesday....


Text: Luke 1:76 ‘And you child, will be called the prophet of the Most High; for you will go before the Lord to prepare his ways and to give knowledge of salvation to his people by the forgiveness of their sins.’

Luke’s gospel gives an account of the birth and parentage of John the Baptist and links him firmly with Jesus. His birth, name, and office were foretold by the angel Gabriel to Zacharias, while Zacharias was performing his functions as a priest in the temple of Jerusalem. Zacharias’ wife, Elisabeth, was of the daughters of Aaron so John is automatically one of the priestly line. Elizabeth is Mary’s kinswoman, so John and Jesus are related. His family background gives him firm credentials to be pointing to who Jesus is. From before his birth John is set apart for a purpose, and in childhood this becomes clear to all who knew him for they could see that ‘the Lord’s hand was with him.’ (Luke 1:66)

From this point on, until he appears publicly in Israel, John goes to live in the Desert. (Lk1:80) When he appears again at the start of chapter 3 his mission is made clear in the words of the prophet Isaiah. He is ‘A voice of one calling in the desert ‘Prepare the Way of the Lord.’ (Lk 3:4) He comes to baptize with water, and to prepare the path for Jesus. Jesus is the one of whom he says: One more powerful than I will come, the thongs of whose sandals I am not worthy to untie. He will baptize with the Holy Spirit and with fire.” (Luke 3:16) For Luke, John the Baptist plays a central role in preparing the way of the Lord, in readying the hearts of the people to hear the message of the gospel as it related to their lives.

How can we follow in the footsteps of John the Baptist? Do our lives point to Jesus? Although we follow after Jesus rather than precede him, many in today’s world do not know the Christian story. For them, coming into contact with Christian people is like providing a light to their path, an example of why following Jesus is the way to freedom from oppression and ultimately salvation.


Prayer: Lord, may my actions be a reflection of your presence in my life. May I point the way to Jesus too so that others may see Jesus and want to follow in his path.

Monday, November 05, 2007

Zacchaeus and Summer Heights High



Yesterday I had a preaching Gig at our local parish and I thought I'd share with you some snippets from my sermon. The text for the day was Luke 19:1-10 the story of Zacchaeus. Ever one to use images of popular culture to open up ideas I decided to explore 2 ideas: firstly how Zacchaeus felt and why he needed to climb the tree - and secondly to use Ja'mie King as a juxtoposition to the way Jesus responds to Zacchaeus. I'm not going to repeat the whole sermon - but here are 2 of the key moments. Would be interested to see what you think!

Firstly: Comparing Zaccheus to the lonely playground guide in SHH

The clip I chose shows Ja’mie just after she arrives at the school. A girl from Summer Heights has been asked to show Ja’mie around the school and introduce her to her friends. There are a number of reasons I chose to show this clip. One of the things I like about this clip is that it evokes in us the feelings, the emotions of being an outsider. The little girl who is guiding Ja’mie around the school clearly wants to be her friend. This nameless girl is ostracised because she is “uncool” – she is small, pale, shy and has unruly curly hair. She tries to introduce Ja’mie to her own friends but Ja’mie decides that they are “so boring.” In fact Ja’mie is really only interested befriending the “beautiful girls” despite the fact that her guide tells her that Holly and her friends bully her. Did you see how by the end of the clip Ja’mie is standing with her back to the nameless girl and she is completely outside the circle? She does not fit in and recedes into the background. She is an outsider.

As satire, this clip makes us feel uncomfortable about the unnamed girl being pushed out of the circle. For a lot of us know how it feels to be pushed out of a social group. Because it is a part of life – as a teacher I’d say that just about every kid feels bullied or outcast at some stage. Most of us have experienced being pushed out at some stage in one setting or other – at school, in the work place, in our families or friendship groups, or even in the church. If we haven’t experienced it then most of us will know someone who has. We can sympathise with the nameless girl because we know how she feels.


In some ways Zacchaeus is just like this little girl. He is a small man and quite unpopular amongst the locals. He is an outcast in his local community. Zacchaeus is a tax collector. He is wealthy. Being a tax collector doesn’t seem so bad to us today: now a days tax collectors are merely accountants who are doing their job –with no reason to be despised at all. However Zacchaeus was a Jewish man working for the Roman rulers of the day. And if that were not enough to make him hated, being a tax collector was a position of significant political power. So we could think of Zacchaeus as being a bit like a modern politician on the take. Someone with significant power who is able to use it to unfairly disadvantage others. Zacchaeus is despised and cast out not only because he is wealthy, but because his money has been collected in a dishonourable way – at the expense of others. Life for Zacchaeus is mixed: He is wealthy, powerful and has status, but it he is lacking what is important: he is spiritually poor and is denied access to life in the community – he is an outcast.
Zacchaeus is unable to see Jesus for a number of reasons. Firstly he is a short man. But secondly, he is trapped behind a barrier of people who will not make way to let him in. When Luke points out that Zacchaeus can’t see Jesus on account of the crowd, he is making it very clear that Zacchaeus is a marginalised outsider. His wealth and status can’t buy him respect.

Secondly: The juxtaposition of Ja'mie with Jesus




how does Jesus respond to Zacchaeus up in the tree?
Firstly let’s go back to Ja’ime and her unnamed guide in the playground. When the girl points out to Ja’mie that Holly and her friends bully her and make her feel excluded Ja’mie immediately sees those girls as her new “in crowd”, the girls she wants to be friends with. She meets up with them, tells them how cool and beautiful they are and fits seamlessly into their circle. The unnamed girl is thus pushed out – literally to the back of the group: unwanted, small and alone.

And I think this contrast to Jesus’ response to Zacchaeus really shows us just how powerful Jesus’ action is. Jesus stops under Zacchaeus’ tree and before Zacchaeus even speaks to him he says “Zacchaeus, make haste and come down; for I must stay at your house today.” “I MUST stay at your house today.” This is the crux of the story.

Because Jesus is not only inviting himself to Zacchaeus’ house, he is inviting Zacchaeus back into the circle of social acceptability and belonging. He is inviting Zacchaeus into the Kingdom of God.

Anyway - that's by no means the entire sermon - but a bit of a taster!

Bye for now,
SB

Thursday, October 04, 2007

Alas! The holidays are over!



Sadly the holidays are almost at an end. I did manage to achieve quite a bit: the house is much tidier and I've done some work on my thesis... and had many a pleasant lunch with friends.

I also took Jason who has been staying with us from Hanzhong (See BB's article about him here) up to visit nana at Mansfield. We had a lovely day with her, and also visited my aunts and uncles at Merrijig. Poor old BB had to stay home as his eye hurts at altitude - but we had fun without him.

On the way back I stopped and took this pic of a ruined house. I've often seen it on the way up and back from Mansfield and wondered who used to live in it. There's something rather picturesque and sad about ruined houses isn't there- I always wonder who lived there, who loved, cried, had children, and died there.

SB

Friday, September 21, 2007

Beware of short hairy men......

I thought I'd join in the fun after BB discovered he was To Kill a Mockingbird... and guess what - I'm The Hobbit! Now that I wouldn't mind so much but the blurb below read a certain way is frankly disturbing.......
TTYS!
SB




You're The Hobbit!

by J.R.R. Tolkien

All you wanted was a nice cup of tea when some haggard crazy old man
came into your life and told you it was time to do something with yourself. Now you're
all conflicted about whether to stick with your stay-at-home lifestyle or follow this
crazy person into the wild. While you're very short and a little furry, you seem to be
surrounded by an even greater quantity of short folks lately. Try not to lose your ring,
but keep its value in perspective!



Take the Book Quiz
at the Blue Pyramid.

Thursday, September 20, 2007

Delicious!

I've just added a link to my favorites on delicious which I'll be adding to over the next little while....

Check it out!!

Will be back with a deep and meaningful blog soon I hope! It's holidays and I've got time to THINK.....

SB

Saturday, August 25, 2007

Red Bubble Art Gallery

Hey,

I've just come across a wonderful site called RedBubble - an online artist's community. If you want to see some amazing photos check it out here.

I enjoy looking at images and meditating on them as part of my quiet time with God... many of these are perfect for the purpose. I love photography... this also inspires me to get the camera out and start taking some pics!

Here's one of mine just for fun - the stuff at Red Bubble is heaps better - but of course can't copy them here due to copyright. I hope you enjoy. It's the oft photographed eilean donan castle. No water in the moat in mine though! :-)

Cheers
SB

Wednesday, August 22, 2007

What we've been up to......

Hi all,
BB has written a very good summary of the wonderful Agape service we were involved in last weekend - to read it look HERE.

I'll share the assembly reflections I've presented at school recently in the near future too... interesting to hear what people think!
Take care,
SB

Saturday, August 11, 2007

I'm Miss Piggy!!

When I was in Grade 3 I loved The Muppets - and Miss Piggy was definately my fave!! I'm sure I still have Miss Piggy's Aerobicise album somewhere gathering dust - what a pity I no longer have a record player to play it on! :-)

You Are Miss Piggy

A total princess and diva, you're totally in charge - even if people don't know it.
You want to be loved, adored, and worshiped. And you won't settle for anything less.
You're going to be a total star, and you won't let any of the "little people" get in your way.
Just remember, piggy, never eat more than you can lift!

Wednesday, August 01, 2007

YouTube: The pros and cons

It's funny how you have a day where you come across one thing several times... today for me it was YouTube. I've been thinking for a while that I should check it out and hadn't got around to it. Today I've been thinking about the pros and cons of Youtube and exploring the same.

So firstly Barney Zwartz in his blog The Religious Write explored the issue of the melbourne skaters who filmed a terrible encounter with a Melbourne Catholic priest and posted it on Youtube. You can read it here. This raises all kinds of questions for me about the appropriateness of publishing material with no checks and balances. Whilst not condoning the disgraceful language used by the priest, it would seem that the kids have baited him in order to film it. They are hardly innocent here. Another incident like this happened at a Melbourne School earlier in the year when kids staged a bullying incident and put it on Youtube - the media got wind of it, blew it out of proportion and a great deal of damage was done before the kids admitted that it was a hoax. Incidents like these make me wonder about the issues related to such technology where there is no controls over what is published.

However, we had a notice from our Deputy Principal today to say that Youtube was being unblocked for staff at school (up until now it was a banned site at school) and that we were free to explore the educational possibilities. So, I've had fun finding Chinese learning tools on it tonight. Try searching "Learn Chinese" on Youtube and you'll see what I mean. Some ordinary stuff, but also some really cute videos and cartoons in CHinese, produced for teaching purposes which I'll certainly be able to use in the classroom.

So what this says to me is this: Youtube is just like MSN, Skype, Facebook, Wikipedia, and dare I say it, Blogger. All of these tools that allow people to communicate easily with people known and unknown are open for abuse and misuse. They are also wonderful tools with enormous benefits if used wisely. We need to explore these new technologies with our eyes open - and make sure the kids do the same!
SB

Thursday, July 05, 2007

Standing on the threshold

Hey everyone!
BB has written an excellent piece about last night's presbytery meeting so I thought I'd link to it rather than covering the same ground... you can find it here.

The only thing I'd add is a ditto on just how difficult it was to get the speeches down to 5 minutes. As it was we had to basically cut them in half yesterday, and as a result we'd left out some important things we'd wanted to say.

If you're interested to see a copy of what I presented, let me know!

One more BIG hurdle to go!
Hugs
SB

Wednesday, July 04, 2007

What kind of Bra am I?

Well guess who is on holidays! Clearly my brain has turned to fudge and I'm wallowing in silly stuff. I've just read this quiz out to BB who, whilst he proudly agrees that he's very handsome he reckons it's a pity that I've married a man who doesn't give a toss about lingerie! :-(




You Are a Lace Bra!



Dreamy, romantic, and ultra-feminine

You're a womanly woman who makes guys feel like men

Your perfect guy is strong, determined, and handsome

With a softer side that only you can draw out


Best get back to something more serious.....
TTYS!
SB

Wednesday, June 13, 2007

My Facebook Account

Hi All,

I've succumbed to an account on Facebook. If you have one too then check mine out. It's pretty easy to find me if you know the 'real' me - just put my name in and search! I've managed to make contact with a couple of old friends - as well as catch up with a few OS friends.... it's good fun!

Talk to you soon!
SB

Monday, June 04, 2007

Why forgiveness???

BB and I were transfixed last night watching Compass. The program for the week was called Every Parent's Nightmare and was the story of Julie Nicholson, a mother and an Anglican priest who has to face the senseless death of her beloved daughter in the 2005 London terrorist bombings. Julie has struggled to make meaning of the tragedy of her daughter's death, and in the program she talked with parents of other children who had died in tragic circumstances: parents whose son was killed in fighting in Belfast, a father whose daughter was killed in the Tsunami in 2005 and mother whose son died of a brain tumour and who gave her son's organs to save the life of another mother's child, and a mother whose daughter has a debilitating motor neurological disease.

The program explored just how difficult it is to forgive when tragedy strikes. As a minister, it is one thing to extol others to forgiveness, but for many parents who suffer a tragic death of a child Julie it seems it is quite another to actually forgive.

Now, I've never managed to get pregnant, let alone have a child, so I can't pretend to understand what it must be like to lose a child. However, my own family was hit by tragedy in 1993 when my father was killed in a senseless motor racing accident. Yes, he chose to race his beloved MG - but those who raced at Phillip Island race track in those days put their faith in the hands of those responsible for track safety. And, in the case of my dad's death there was an enormous question mark over whether those responsible for track safety were even interested in taking responsibility for the upkeep of the track. He hit a tyre wall full of dirt, which no one even remembered was there. And what's more, those responsible hadn't even had a meeting to discuss his death after the fact - they didn't even consider it "significant."

Imagine how it felt for my mother, sister and myself to sit through a coroner's inquest where we had to listen to this. His death was not significant enough for them to even bother to discuss it. He wasn't famous. Easy to sweep under the carpet. At this point we were faced with a choice. Did we spend many years, enormous sums of money in order to sue these organisations to teach them a lesson? Or did we get on with living, with the things that had meant so much to my father, a keen Rotarian who always worked to make a difference for those around him.

For us the answer was not that complex. But it did involve forgiveness. We actually had to let go the anger we felt against those who had, to all intents and purposes been responsible for dad's death. We had to actively choose to move on. As one of the families in the compass program pointed out, forgiveness was an act they had to undertake over, and over again. But it was worth it. Why? Because it allowed us to get on with the business of living.

I've often thought that the Christian doctrine of forgiveness is much more about the forgiver than the one who is being forgiven. The "forgiver" is the one who is freed by the act of forgiveness. The forgiver is the one who gets their life back. To forgive is to choose life. Not to forget the person, or to glibly move on as if one is not suffering enormous pain, because that continues. But it is to choose to begin to heal, so that oneday, perhaps new life, resurrection even will be possible.

For me, that's the heart of the gospel, the point of the Jesus story.

Cheers,

SB

Thursday, May 24, 2007

The Wedding at Cana - Chinese Style



Following on from my last post on the fantastic Chinese Christian Art of He Qi- here's another one of his paintings.

This one is the Wedding at Cana. It's in the style of a Chinese wedding - so the bride is the central figure with the red veil. To the right is the "shuangxi" or double happiness character which chinese people hang at weddings to bring luck to the couple - to the right is another wedding symbol - the red lantern.

The servants below are pouring water into big wine jars - the character "jiu" is written on the jars - "jiu" is the chinese word for wine.

I really love these images as they so simply translate the Christian story into a Chinese context. In exploring his art I can explore 3 things I love at once - Christian imagery, Art and Chinese language and culture - loving it!

If you haven't checked out He Qi's great webgallery yet do so on line - the link is below right.

Catcha soon!
SB

Saturday, May 19, 2007

He Qi Gallery - what a find!

I have discoverd links to this amazing Chinese artist in a number of places as I've surfed the net lately - and when I've mentioned him to people everyone has said "oh yeah - he's fantastic!"

So just in case you, like me haven't seen this fantastic nieve Chinese art version of stories from the biblical narrative - here's a link to his work..... enjoy! http://www.heqigallery.com/index.htm


SB

Friday, May 18, 2007

"I wish Jesus was a woman...."

Those were the words of one of the girls in my Year 10 RE class today. The comment came right out of the blue for me - we were talking about ways in which we people around the world image Jesus in different ways.

We stopped for a bit to discuss this idea. Several of the girls joined in. They felt that they would be able to relate better to Jesus as a role model if he was female. When I asked why this was, and whether she felt she could relate to any men as role models she thought further and said:

"It's just that I think if Jesus was a woman, men in the church over the years wouldn't have treated women the way they have."

What a great insight!! I then explored with them some of the ways Jesus showed enormous respect for women- far in excess of the cultural mores of his time. We also talked about the ways the church had changed in the last 30 years or so.

Amazing the insights of kids who are not church goers. Amazing the disarmingly honest and open questions and comments they make in class! Whoever said that last period friday was the hardest class of the week???

Thanks for sharing, class, it's a pleasure to work with you!!
Ms B

Thursday, May 17, 2007

An $88 million obscenity



A Painting by the apparently famous american artist Rothko sells for $88 million. This is the lead story in The Age that I read this morning. Article

How is this possible?? There are millions of starving children in the world. There is an Aids pandemic in Africa. $88 million on a painting... has the world gone mad or is it just me??

The 0nly thing that makes me feel slightly better is that Rockerfeller who owns the painting is going to donate the proceeds to charity. (Well he hardly needs the cash does he!) Hopefully it's being donated to real charities, to help real people and it's not just a cover to keep his public image nice and shiny......


Come on world - what are we doing?? How can we allow little ones to be so needy and do so little about it?
One of the reasons I'm applying to candidate for ministry is so that I can focus more on making a difference for those on the margins. One of the things I've always admired so much about the UCA is their focus on Social Justice. Seeing that painting this morning made focus anew on the need to care for the poor and disenfranchised in our world.
Come on people - let's make some noise!
SB


Sunday, May 13, 2007

Memories II : Northern Europe

This post is mum writing about our trip thru Sweden, Denmark German and the Netherlands in 2005..........

We left Perolov's house on April 20th in what he insists on calling MY Mazda 626, a lovely soft green 88 sedan, heading south for 3 hours to Osby to visit my dear friend Linda (the Angel Lady) and her family . Linda and Daniel have three terrific sons, who like to practice their English on me and I'm expected to reciprocate with Swedish. It's fun and we manage to communicate. Linda made us lunch, then it was off to collect Joel from school, before a tour of the town and a walk along a raised timber pathway by Lake Osby, lovely, quiet , Swedish forest. Dinner at home,was followed by the very special Swedish DVD movie I'd bought along the way, then after much shuffling of beds, to fit us in, our first day was over. After breakfast, Sandy tried her hand at using Linda's jigsaw, those of you who've seen her book, know Linda's angels are seriously cute and made of wood. We weren't allowed to leave without an angel each and some paper serviettes designed by Linda, while I was completely spoilt with one of her superb table centre quilts! Then we were off to Odense.

The drive was uneventful, except of course for the crossing of the Oresund bridge between Malmö and Copenhagen, 15 km of bridge, followed by several of tunnel, a huge engineering feat, which costs nearly $50.00 to cross. If the Rotary conference next year is at Malmö-Copenhagen, no doubt we'll be making use of the MUCH cheaper water bus for foot traffic. We still had the whole island to cross, followed by another expensive toll bridge, till we reached Odense. After finding our B&B which was fairly underwhelming, hard creaky beds and no TV,we set off for the rather pretty walk along the river into the town, arriving just too late for the Hans Christian Andersen museum. Still his stories are mostly sad anyway, and he only grew up there, all his writing was actually done in the city. Odense however has a gorgeous old town, with lots of beautifully maintained, quite ancient buildings. The freezing wind made me stop to buy a hooded windcheater, which I subsequently wore to death,and after a dinner of wild boar with mushroom sauce and a prodigiously expensive glass of Aussie red it was back to our room for what was to be our last night in Scandinavia.

The road south to Germany involved another, mercifully toll free bridge, followed by quite a few hours of motorway at 140kmh on average and we were in the slow lane! They were passing us at easily 200kmh, hairy stuff. This continued till the ring road around Hamburg, when suddenly it all stopped and banked up before a rather long tunnel. After about 15minutes, sitting in the centre lane of traffic, we were one of at least 6 cars which suddenly had steam rising from the bonnet. We managed to sidle over to the right lane and get off at the next exit to sit in a garage, talking urgently and expensively to Perolov. Back on our way we were so pleased we'd stopped since the road led through a long single lane tunnel, a nightmare to break down in there! The delay however meant we'd missed Bergen-Belsen, which we'd managed to convince ourselves we SHOULD see, rather a relief actually,' though Sandy is still disappointed , since she often needs to teach from books on the subject.

Eventually we reached the home of our friends Elke and Mark d'Cunha in Celle only to discover when we arrived that we were to stay in a lovely B&B nearby, very spoilt! After a drink, we set off for a local Chinese restaurant for a superb meal, then bed. Next day, we walked in the forest with Elke and their Rhodesian Ridgeback Gandalf, who wasn't very well,a quick trip to their factory, then shopping for dinner at the local supermarket, which I always find very interesting in a foreign country. That done, we set off for the city centre, which has to be seen to be believed. Celle is the second best preserved medieval city in Germany and consists of street after street of 15th-16th century half timbered houses, now shops, many of them four stories high, with tiny rooms, low doorways and floors which meander drunkenly between the displays of produce. Mark had insisted we have lunch with "Hot Pants", which he intriguingly refused to elaborate on. Almost too late, we managed to get a table at this Italian restaurant and all was revealed when the owner arrived to take our order. What a woman! Loved her, she was in her forties, long hair to her shoulders a tight white blouse topping a pair of the briefest hot pants hovering at the top of stockinged legs and high heels. This was complemented by her joyously overt personality, greeting us all with cheek kisses before taking our orders. The sheer force of her personality ensures a full restaurant I'm sure, lots of men of course, but we were in no doubt she's a woman's woman. After a superb meal, we were given a fruit sorbet and a glass of grappa on the house and as we left we got up the courage to ask if we could have our photos taken with her. No trouble at all. After lunch we saw a bit more of Celle, then back to the house for a smorgasbord of wonderful pates, cheeses etc and lots of wine. The next day we watched the Pope's inauguration on TV, history in the making, then at Mark's insistence we were treated to a special meal featuring white asparagus, a local speciality, just coming into season. It started with asparagus soup, then you could choose your meat to go with asparagus, salad and boiled potatoes. I had salmon which was superb and Sandy had hers with the more traditional ham. After this Mark insisted we have sweets as well .

Since we were driving to Holland, we'd had no alcohol, but the restaurant owner arrived with his special home made liquor on the house, oh well , it was only a little bit, but I felt the need of coffee just the same. On leaving Mark and Elke presented us with a bottle of the "Burgermeistertropfen" (38% proof) and half a dozen little bottles of their own specially bottled and labelled Kingfisher Ralzeputz (58% proof).

The afternoon was spent driving to Wageningen in Holland, not far from the German /Dutch border, to stay with our friends Reinhilde and Kees. Due to our sumptuous lunch, we were a little late in arriving in Wageningen, but this was compounded by the complete failure of our Michelin guide computer directions, which told us to turn right, when we should have gone left. This resulted in a hilariously hysterical phone conversation with Reinhilde who had no idea where we were, since my reading and spelling of Dutch street names was totally beyond her comprehension. She told us that Kees was waiting outside for us and suggested we ask a passerby for directions since Churchillveg was a very well known street. This worked and we eventually found poor Kees who said he'd watched us sail past the end of the street and run after us shouting on one occasion! Finally we arrived and were treated to a lovely home made vegetable soup, followed by Dutch sausages served with a cabbage, potato and ham mixture, the name of which escapes me, but it was DELICIOUS. After dinner, I gave Reinhilde the ladybird fairy I'd made for her and was pleased to see her settle into her new home, bringing as she did several of Reinhilde's ladybirds back together with some Australian friends. Then it was off to Kees' house for the night! This time we had our own house, with breakfast set out and ready for us. Spoilt weren't we?

Next morning Kees drove us to the station and we caught the train to Amserdam. First stop was the information centre for a map, then we set off walking to the Rijks Museum via the Anne Frank house, with its queue around the corner as usual, obviously composed of people who had more than one day to see Amsterdam. We took some photos outside and one of the statue of Anne, then followed the canal as much as possible to the museum. The Rijks gallery's collection of Rubens, Vermeer and other Dutch masters was truly spectacular and well worth the long walk from the station. After a quick lunch of salad rolls, we headed for the Van Goph museum, just nearby. Here the security was quite amazing, and included airport like xray screening. Sandy felt there were fewer Van Gophs there than at her previous visit, but it was very interesting to see his artistic progression, from the very dark depressed looking early Dutch ones, followed by his experiments with pointillism and on to the development of his own, highly textured brilliantly coloured technique. Very interesting. Then a very quick, very long walk back to the harbour, where we made our big mistake. We were expected back in Wageningen early enough to go for a special meal of profetjes, the little Dutch pancakes in a restaurant that shut at 8pm. Arriving we thought in time for a short cruise of the canals, we were disgusted to be kept waiting till the boat filled, making us far too late for the restaurant after our long train ride. Embarassed and apologetic, we arrived at Reinhilde's house, but she forgave us and after finishing the soup from the night before,she went out for Dutch takeaway, chips and croquettes filled with beef and a creamy mixture,. Really yummy, together with some carrots and peas cooked by Reinhilde. We were delighted too to discover that while we had been checking out Amsterdam, Kees had spent time with his head under the bonnet of our car and his ear to the phone talking to Perolov and had managed to create a plug adaptor for our cooling fan, so from then on if the car got hot, or if we knew we were to be in traffic, we could just jump out and plug in the fan! Thank you Kees!!

Sandy had been desperate to see a dyke, so after dinner, we just had time, in the daylight that was left, to drive about 10kms to investigate. Being brought up with the story of the little boy with his finger in the dyke, we expected to see a dam wall, but it was actually a long built up grass covered hill. That was the winter dyke, the summer dyke was the elevated road we were driving on and it even had some shops and houses on it. The summer one, was the higher, inner dyke, watched anxiously if summer rains were heavy, by the people living on the inside on what I have to say was very low lying land. We were also fascinated by the large semi-circular metallic gates, which stand high above the landscape until needed, when they are lowered into the water to retain and control the flow. They looked like two upside down u shapes, one surmounted by red lights, the other with green. I tried to photograph them, but it was already too dark. Later we went back to Kees' house , where we all had coffee and and a last chat. That was when Rheinhilde presented us each with two sets of yellow tulip lights, which we had foolishly admired in her house. I should have known better after the ladybirds, how can you forget such kindness?

What will be next? Who knows - wait and see!

Hugs,

SB

psst..... more wedding pix and other stuff at "My Space"

I'm trying out My space as well as Blogger to see which I like best. (is it heresy? Is it like dating two men at once????)

Anyway - there are more wedding photos and other stuff on my space. Which site do you prefer?? Do I keep this one? The My space one? Both????

VOTE NOW!!!

Link: http://sandybrodine.spaces.live.com/

Friday, April 20, 2007

Memories I : Trip to Italy

Well I had some lovely comments when I posted this as an email from Italy in 2005. Since I'm not managing a lot of REAL travel at the moment (apart from to Sydney next weekend which doesn't count) I thought I'd post old emails of travels of journeys of travels past so that we could all enjoy them again. If I can find the ones from England in 2002 I'll post those again too!

Ah what fun we had........

We landed in Naples, not the nicest of cities, where we spent a couple of days. Fortunately at least one of these was to tour Pompeii. Pompeii was incredible. The detail of what is left in the streets and houses, lived in nearly 2000 years ago and covered in ash when Mt Vesuvius erupted is quite amazing. There are mosaic on floors, beautiful statues in temples and some quite startlingly pornographic frescos in the bath houses! In all seriousness one of the interesting thoughts which struck me was how similar the layout of churches is to the ancient temples left at Pompeii; you can really see how much the early christians appropriated from the religions around them. Also in Pompeii we visited the Museo which had some fabulous mosaic removed from Pompeii and more erotika! We were quite glad to leave Naples and would advise others wanting to visit Sorrento, Capri or the Amalfi coast, all of which are WONDERFUL to either get out of Naples quickly or avoid it if possible!


Next we headed on the local train down to Piano de Sorrento, a hill side suburb near Sorrento and breathed a sigh or relief to be in a cleaner place free of so many pick pockets, beggars and life threatening mopeds! Sorrento itself was beautiful. I bought some silk scarves very cheaply. We then headed out on a day trip to the Isle of Capri. This was mum's favorite day of the whole Italy experience. We caught a boat around the island. The water was a clear bright aqua colour and the coral growing on the rocks was bright orange. Amazing! We had a lovely Pizza for lunch (along with our usual 1\2 litre of Vino Rosso) in a restaurant in the village of Capri, overlooking the white cliffs and the harbour way down below. It was truly an idylic day!

However, this day was not quite so happy historically, as it was the day after the death of Pope John Paul II. The outpouring of grief at the death of the beloved "Il Papa" was quite mind blowing. That night we heard on the news and read in the papers that there would be about 4 million pilgrims expected in Rome (the final count exceeded 5 million according to the Italian newspaper Il Reppublica if my understanding of Italian serves me correctly!)and we decided that our trip to Rome in 2 days time would have to be cancelled. As it turned out, the day I had tickets booked for the Vatican Tour (having been knocked back for the Vatican Necropolis when it became obvious that JP II was on his final legs) was the very day that 2 million filed passed his coffin, spending upwards of 15 hours in a queue for 15 seconds infront of the bier with his poor old body on display. I think we made a very wise decision! Of course I was very sad to miss out on Rome for a second time. Mum tried to comfort me by saying that really it's just a church with a painted ceiling, and we'd seen plenty of Madonnas with child anyway, but I still reckon it would have been good to be there! Although I suppose I have seen rather a lot of it on TV in the last 2 weeks…. Ah well…. Next time perhaps!!

The following day, whilst desperately trying to call to cancel our Roman accomodation, we took a two hour loal bus ride along the Amalfi coast to the town of Amalfi. Once again amazing scenery, a very narrow road and lots of hair raising stories of cars passing us on bends. Amalfi itself was beautiful. We had a delightful lunch at a "beachside" restaurant and then went and saw the remains of St Andrew, apostle of Jesus, in the cathedral. A beautiful little town perched very precariously on an incredibly steep cliff - definitely worth a visit.

Next, in order to fill the 3 days we were supposed to spend in Rome we went to Perugia in Umbria. This was partly because our next stop was Assisi and we figured it was sensible to head in the right direction. On our first morning there we called Brendan at home in Melbourne who checked the internet for us to get information on what to see and do in the area and how to catch a train. It was quite surreal to be standing in a square in Italy speaking to someone in Melbourne who was describing to me perfectly accurately what I was actually seeing in front of me and how to find the tourist information bureau! Perugia is a lovely city with a beautiful medieval town square, a great art gallery and several quite interesting churches and chapels. (Including a beautiful one painted by Raffaello himself!) Next we spent a day in Cortona (Home to Frances Mayes who wrote Under the Tuscan Sun we discovered on arrival) which is another really lovely medieval hilltop town. Unfortunately since the weather was appalling there wasn't much open, but the Etruscian museum was interesting and the lunch and the coffee and superb chocolate we had later certainly made the trip worthwhile!

Our next stop was my highlight of the trip - Assisi. It was marvellous. Once again a beautiful medieval hilltop town (I was starting to feel like a mountain goat by this stage, and it was doing great things for my weight -bottles of vino rosso and delightful lunches not withstanding!) I absolutely adored the cathedral which was dedicated to San Francesco (St Francis of Assisi in English) with a very peaceful and simple romanesque chapel tomb below it. The ancient wall frescos were absolutely beautiful too, and covered every wall. We had 2 days here and visited all of the sites linked to San Francesco and also to San Chiara. (St Clare, his follower who started the order of the Poor Clares) Despite bitterly cold, rainy, windy and wintery weather we really enjoyed Assisi. Besides, a town dedicated to a saint who dedicated himself to poverty, chastity and obedience to God is hardly a place where one should complain about a spot of bad weather now is it!

From Assisi we travelled to Milano. We only had a day there. The youth hostel where we stayed was ordinary, and the bathrooms horrible, but the town itself was lovely. Milano, believe it or not is a FLAT city! The only one we visited. I had pre-booked tickets to see da Vinci's Last Supper on the net and we had a 15 minute tour. (good thing I did too as when we arrived at 9 am for our appointed tour the "sold out" signs were already up for the day.) Despite the huge amount of damage the fresco has sustained over the years, and the fact that it's original painting as a dry fresco was a very bad mistake on da Vinci's part, it was still breathtakingly beautiful. I found it very hard to take my eyes off it. For those who have read The da Vinci Code, yes John does look rather feminine, but then he does in most of the other paitings we saw of him in Italy (and we saw a few!) so I really am not sure that I reckon it's really Mary Magdelene. The tour guide said that his feminine face was to show that he was much younger than the other deciples. It is beautiful and well worth taking the trouble to book in advance on the net to see it! Other highlights of the day were the Duomo (shrouded in canvas as it's being cleaned) but enormous and beautiful inside as well as 2 more art galleries with works by da Vinci, Raffaello et al again. They had the cartoon of the famous Raphaello painting in the Vatican of the Greek Philosophers - so I kind of felt I got close at least!

We then spent a relaxing 2 days at Lake Como. After nearly a week in youth hostels we stayed in rather a nice little B & B just a short 750 m ride straight vertically up the cliff on the funicular. There was a great country market in the square and we had a wonderful 2 hour boat ride on Lake Como. Several nice lunches and some beautiful dinners at our B&B were also a highlight of this city. I have some really nice photos of the lake and our time there!

From here we caught a local bus to Bergamo near Milano to catch a plane to Sweden. The views of the Alps from the bus windows were beautiful. As if we hadn't seen enough art we took advantage of the 1.5 hours we had here to go to a Cezanne/Renoir exhibition which was refreshing with it's Impressionist lack of religious themes! Arriving at the airport we discovered that Ryan Air (a European cheapie airline we were taking to Sweden for about $50 each) had lowered their baggage allowance to 15 kgs per person. Given mum's purchases this meant we were about 9 kgs over! No matter, we pulled everything out, secreted the heavy stuff in our hand luggage(something I am well practiced at) and went through without any excess luggage bill. I must say it was nice for the first time EVER not to be the one responsible for the heaviest luggage!!

We've spent the last 3 days relaxing at Perolov's place in Sweden. He took us to see the cranes that fly up from Spain for the summer and we also had a look at a Viking Stone Circle nearby which was about 1500 years old. We've also downloaded the photos, and I faithfully promise to create an edited selection for anyone who wants to see them -there are rather a lot already! (and that's for me you'd be horrified if you saw how many mum has taken!!) On Wednesday we head south for Denmark, Germany, Holland, Belgium, France, Wales Ireland for a day, and then¨ Scotland. From there mum heads back to Sweden and I am going to London for 10 days to catch up with people I met when I was there in 2002. Then I'll go back to Sweden for Midsommer festival which I'm really looking forward to. Hopefully the travel from now on will be easier (touch wood) because we are borrowing a car from Perolov - bless him! Mum has promised to write the next installment for all of those brave enough to read more from us. To those of you who made it to the end of this, thanks for reading, hope you enjoyed hearing about our trip and stay tuned for the next bit of the journey!!

Fun huh!! Next I'll post mum's email of the travels we did in the rest of Europe.....
Hugs to all,

SB

Sunday, April 08, 2007

Wedding pix 2











For some reason I can't add more images to the last post - so here are some more:






























Finally: "Our Wedding!!"







Our wedding was a beautiful, beautiful day. It was a lovely sunny summer's day - but not too hot. It was officiated by two very dear friends of ours: the Reverend Ian Brown and the Reverend Jillian Stewart and took place at Toorak Uniting church.

Brendan and I put a lot of time into planning the service with Ian and Jillian and were really pleased with it. It was a sacred and moving time for us both, and for many others in the church. Many said to us later how touched they were by Ian's beautiful sermon: it really spoke about how significant marriage is for all of us. The finishing touch was the simply divine music provided by my school's choir joined by a number of our ex-students, including Katie Radcliffe who sang the Ave Maria in the most hauntingly beautiful voice. It was such a wonderful gift! We were really moved by the beauty of the service, and are really grateful to Jillian and Ian, and our attendants, Larissa, Nadine and Claire, and Brendan's brother Andrew and nephew Scott for taking part in it.




After we'd had coffee at the church after the service and taken LOTS of pics (Thanks Bev!) and video (thanks Linden!) we then headed off to mum's house for the "bbq and drinks" in lieu of a 'serious' reception. I've remarked to many people that the fact that the groom made his speech barefoot and in jeans says something about the kind of function it was. It was really laid back and relaxed, and many of our friends took the opportunity to talk to get to know others they'd never met. I was also rapt that a number of my students from school volunteered to serve the food and drinks - it was brilliant to be able to share the day with you guys. All in all, it was a great night!!

For my overseas friends: When you look at the pictures of the wedding at mum's you'll see how very dry it was. We're in the middle of a terrible drought. It's a little more dry now - but we're still desperately in need of rain. It's pretty bleak here at the moment!

Anyway, finally some photos to show you all what a wonderful wonderful day it was! My apologies for taking so long! Thanks very much for all the prayers, love and support which got me, and us to this day!

If you want to see pics of the honeymoon - Brendan has produced a beautiful account of it on his blog: http://comfycouchconfessions.blogspot.com/2007/02/sacred-spaces.html

And he also has produced a beautiful testimony to our wonderful, beautiful dog Connor who departed this life earlier in the year aged 10. How we miss you beautiful face Connor-T-dog ! http://comfycouchconfessions.blogspot.com/2007/01/vale-connor.html

Love to you all - Here's to making a more concerted attempt to staying in touch!

Hugs
Sandy XXX